This binding is an ideal choice for beginners in shibari. It is easy to perform and can replace devices such as handcuffs, leg straps, spreaders, and even a gag. Thanks to its simplicity, it is perfect for restraining a partner to a bed or piece of furniture, allowing you to limit movement without using complex devices.
Benefits:
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Versatility: suitable for binding both hands and legs, and easily combined with other techniques.
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Simplicity: easy to learn even for beginners.
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Comfort and Safety: the binding does not cause discomfort or harm to your partner.
This technique is a great choice for creating an atmosphere of submission and control, allowing you to experiment with new sensations without the need for complex devices.
Step 1. Starting loop around the wrists
Begin by wrapping the rope around your partner’s wrists, placed together. Leave a long working end of the rope going upward — this will be used for the next steps. Make sure the rope lies flat and isn’t too tight on the skin.
Step 2. Second wrap around the wrists
Make a second wrap around the wrists, right next to the first one. This adds stability and makes the tie more comfortable on the skin. Ensure the rope sits snugly, stays flat, and that both wraps are parallel and evenly aligned.
Step 3. Secure with a knot
Pass the working end of the rope between the wrists and tie a simple knot to lock the wrap in place. Add an extra loop or wrap for better stability. Make sure the knot is not too tight and feels comfortable against the skin.
Step 4. Fixing the strap
After making several wraps around the wrists, take the free end of the rope and thread it under the existing loops.
Step 5. Arm spread
Make several turns of the rope, parallel to each other, between your hands. Forming a tight spread of the desired width. Pull the rope through the loop formed, forming a secure fixing knot.
Step 6. Completing the Fixation
Make sure the tie is firm but not too tight — fingers should stay warm and partner should remain comfortable.
Step 7. Safety and check-up
- Check rope tension — it should be snug but not overly tight.
- Make sure the knot holds the rope in place but doesn’t tighten on its own.
- You can use the rope ends for securing to furniture or extending the tie.
- Regularly check for any numbness, discomfort, or circulation issues.
Step 8. Aesthetic finishing
- Place the knot symmetrically between the wrists.
- Make sure the wraps lie flat and aren’t twisted.
- You can leave the rope ends loose or tuck them under the wraps for a clean look.
- This tie is both functional and visually pleasing — ideal for practice or photoshoots.
Wrists tied to thighs:
The same basic tie can be adapted to secure the wrists to the thighs. This variation gives greater control over your partner’s body and creates a restrained feeling while keeping the body accessible for interaction.
Ankle tie variation:
Instead of the wrists, this tie can be used on the ankles. It opens up new positions and play scenarios while keeping the technique simple and functional.
Gag tie with wrist restraint:
This creative variation transforms the tie into a gag connected to the wrists. It adds an element of helplessness and intense control — perfect for more advanced play sessions.